i need to grow up

this is the view from my front porch taken early one morning. i picked it because its calm + peaceful and its to remind me that life's to short to be catty or so high school. this morning i hurt someones feelings unintentionally. its a joke between mike and i but i got caught. while the person and i are not close friends, the thought of "is this how i want my daughter to be? or is this how i want to be remembered by my husband, person whose feelings i hurt or by my friend who i had to share my plight with?" came to mind as i was putting on my make-up moments ago. it isn't. so i vow to never do it again. i need to grow up and be an adult.