every morning i go to my daily blogs to see whats new in the world {their world}. to see whats the newest +greatest. to get a dose of daily laughs or inspiration. or just a happy warm fuzzy feeling to start my day with. this morning i went to a blog that i haven't read in awhile only to find that she was left with hateful + mean comments. my heart went out for her. the blogger took it like a champ + gave back with her wicked sense of humor but was it really necessary in the first place? what i cant comprehend is if you don't like the blog or don't agree with the person writing it- just leave the blog+ don't come back. its that freakin' simple. the blog wasn't written or started for you in the first place.
on the flip side, its nice to know that there are kind + considerate people being united together by blogs and they want to make others feel good. like on the wonderful world of wieners. someone kind+ generous sent a gift certificate to hallie's son who is in the air force. not only did it make his day but it also made hallie's knowing that someone was thinking of them + that her son was happy. something so simple + easy made someones day! now you dont have to leave gifts to make someone's day. usually a comment or two about how the blog inspires you or that it made you laugh will do the trick. there's enough depressing +hateful things going on in the world- why have to bring it in the blogging world too?? haters need to stay out!
You are SOOOO right. Both CJ and are so touched that people think of him and want to treat him to something special. Just makes me warm inside to know how kind most people are.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the negative comments? I agree with your take. Just don't read the damn blog or don't comment. I'd like to think that the blog world can have many opinions but not hateful ones.
I've only ever had 1 iffy comment left and it wasn't even to me. It was 1 commentor mad at what another commenter said. I was ready to delete everything the angry one said if she didn't stop.
I value everyone's opinions but it's my blog which means I get to say what I want - like it or not.
Hallie :)